Friends

[yumais]

When you are satanist, you have to find people like you no? i mean you can be with a xian girl or will affect you? where you can find satanists friends and girlfriend same? i just want to find friends who are satanists too, is there a problem if you are friends with xians? And another question, if you have Zevism friends you can make some rituals together? Sorry for bothering you with my stupid question, but i want to know

 

[Sundara]

When you are satanist, you have to find people like you no? i mean you can be with a xian girl or will affect you? where you can find satanists friends and girlfriend same? i just want to find friends who are satanists too, is there a problem if you are friends with xians? And another question, if you have Zevism friends you can make some rituals together? Sorry for bothering you with my stupid question, but i want to know

Don’t isolate yourself to any extremes. Have relationships with people you love and enjoy freely, as long as they don’t become parasitic. I think a lot of satanists make the mistake of cutting too many people out of their lives and it’s emotionally damaging. Being social is great for mental health. I’ve stopped looking at “Christian” or whatever and I just look at the character and overall vibe of a person. I don’t tend to make friends with any Christians that push religion onto me or those very involved. There are some out there that just claim to be christian for whatever reason but have none of the negative attributes and don’t talk about it. Those people seem to be fine.

 

[Crystal Lake]

Christians are everywhere,most doent even know what to believe so they just say they are christian. Im not saying its a good thing to have christian friends. Just saying its very hard to find Zevism friends and sometimes one does not really have a choice,humans are social beings and need to socialize sometimes. Remember its not the christian peope that we hate its their religion!! Remember that. Their religion makes them what they are if it was not for that they would be more like us. I hate their stupidly yes and their ignorance and a whole lot of christian character traits,but not the humans them selfs.

I never blame people for their ignorance or foolishness. We are all ignorant and foolish comparing with more intelligent beings for example the gods. The important thing is that they are disrespectful to our gods and don't care about improving themselves.

An adult needs to be responsible for what he said and what he have done. If I make mistakes, I won't just say 'Ohh it is all enemy's fault and I have nothing to do with it.'

The gods may forgive those people's foolish behaviors. It is because our gods are kind, not because what they have done is innocent. They are not innocent.

You can't always put the blame on the enemy. One should be responsible for what he has done.

 

[Henu the Great]

or dealing with people telling me I am an enemy thoughtform and that they are banishing me.

Times have changed. Nowadays people who disagree accuse each other of being infiltrators.

Anyway. I'm glad to hear you are doing fine. I was a bit worried for a moment last month, but it was for nothing. You're obviously doing good.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

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Hi Aldrick.

 

[Wayofthegods]

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Hi Aldrick.

Hey Oly. ^ ^

 

[Stormblood]

One just has to be selective. You obviously don't want to associate with couch potatoes and people whose live is full of intoxicants of any kind. Find sensible people. No smokers, no recreational drug users. You can have allowance for people who drink, as long as they're smart enough not to overdo it (i.e. getting drunk) and do not exercise negative peer pressure on you (in this case, forcing you to drink and harassing you if you do not). Extend this stigma against negative peer pressure to anything in life: if someone forces you to do something that is damaging, simply walk away as they are not worth your time and effort.

Human beings are born social creatures. They need other people to survive and this need changes based on their inner soul traits. For some is enough just to interact with people on a forum, to have a husband/wife and some skin-deep interactions with their co-workers, etc; for others a curated circle of friends is needed offline, with a husband/wife of course and multitude of acquaintances. These are two extreme examples and most people will be anywhere in the spectrum between the two.

Someone once stated "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with". Take out one to be your husband/wife, and you have four slots for true friends. Increase the number, and the bond with them starts growing shallower, more detached and more alienated to the point they can no longer be called friends, but mere acquaintances, because time is not enough to cultivate these connections equally to build them up to strength.

Introspection will tell you what your balance/needs are. Embrace that and set it as a goal for your XI house and you'll grow just fine.

 

[Powstanie Pogańskie]

Satanists are great. But sometimes there is no chemistry between two people even if they are satanists. It is like they are clashing forces.

I just started getting into synastry astrology and it's been clear some people just don't fit with each other, even if they are satanists.

If there are also negative indicators in the synastry chart those two people can try to sabotage each other, get into arguements and fights.

So it's understandable and normal that not all satanists will like each other. But either way all of us should have a bond of unity against the enemy. Even if we don't like or hate another Zevism.

I can attest to this. I've been fiddling around with synastry for maybe a year now - still don't understand a lot, but I've made some progress. Synastry between Satanists does seem to manifest in a healthier manner due to Satanists being spiritually advancing people - thus, bad Saturn placements and hard aspects between planets don't necessarily have to manifest so negatively. Nevertheless, they are still there, and your approach to it is essentially the best way you can go about it: Just gotta accept it and continue on as Zevism. It's no one's fault for having Saturn somewhere in their chart.

Unfortunately, you can't really confirm this synastry between Satanists without natal information being given, and it is indeed the safest route to not share this information with others. Thus I agree with the sentiment here that the safest, and probably happiest, option is to not try bonding personally with Satanists you meet online. Everyone is tempted to, and it's very natural given our situation, but nearly all that have tried can recount a story of how this hurt them in the end, myself included. I've interacted privately with a few Satanists now when the subject was just Satanism, or astrology, or related topics, and such interactions were excellent and helpful. Lamentably I know others have had issues with even doing just that, but I think this is still an option that allows for you to be safe and have a productive conversation.

I also think Stormblood's post as a whole is good to take lessons from, and what luis mentioned is important too: magickal means of fixing your life, in this case attracting compatible, beneficial friendships. After one has spent time reflecting on their needs, the kind of people they want to be around and frankly should be around, etc., a magickal working to safely and positively attract such people would be ideal. This is something I've been considering for myself at a future date, and am currently considering Raidho as a rune for it.