unnamed satanist said:Relationships can carry on through lifetimes. The idea of a soulmate as a perfectly compatible lover that everyone has is wrong, however passionate and long-lasting relationships may be carried into this life. This includes many of the flaws of the relationship as no lover is perfect and you should not expect a perfect soul mate to come into your life. As for finding past life lovers, this is often fated in astrology in transits and progressions (I found mine from a venus-Pluto progression. This happened as it HAD to happen according to fate)
erdemd6gan said:unnamed satanist said:Relationships can carry on through lifetimes. The idea of a soulmate as a perfectly compatible lover that everyone has is wrong, however passionate and long-lasting relationships may be carried into this life. This includes many of the flaws of the relationship as no lover is perfect and you should not expect a perfect soul mate to come into your life. As for finding past life lovers, this is often fated in astrology in transits and progressions (I found mine from a venus-Pluto progression. This happened as it HAD to happen according to fate)
So we don't have a soul mate. (?) In the early days of Satanism, I asked a god to show me my soul mate, that day in my dream I saw that the god I contacted brought me someone. After looking carefully at his face, I woke up and painted a picture of this person.
I have confirmed that this is the person I am currently in a relationship with, and I have confirmed that I have been with this person again in a few of my past lives.
But I was wondering if I found my soul mate wrong because we were having conflicts.
Jack said:It's just a fantasy created by Music and television that is aimed at feminizing men. It's not about romanticism or love, more so than a fantastical idea to shape society.
The actual understanding about this is that two individuals might be astrologically compatible to the point they are just in 'synch' so you interpret it as soulmates.
Instead of nebulous concepts people should look at observable facts like
- Is this person compatible with me ?
- Does she like and appreciate me much more than my faults and does she tolerate me to get over them in time
- Do I feel the same way about her
- Does she trust me
- Do I trust her
- Is this enough to invest for a lifetime and that I will reject the alternatives ?
Forget about bullshit fairy tales about love and focus on actual things like compatibility and trust. Trust is key above all.