My advice would be to simply set an example to your sister which will set you apart as a role model of strength and inspiration in her mind. Develop your personal abilities as per the JoS site and always allow her to feel she can talk to you about any topic. When the time is right for her, she will ask questions about what you believe in, and when the time is right FOR YOU BOTH then you will be able to be open with her. Although she already sounds very intelligent and mature, at twelve, she is probably still a risk of “blabbing” and you are right to be cautious just now. Approximately 12 months ago I had the situation where one of my nieces, who is now 18, started asking quite probing questions about my beliefs while we were conversing at the edge of a family event. I have been a Satanist at heart for nearly 15 years and dedicated 11 years ago. I came quite close to opening up to her, excited by the opportunity to show her the Universal Truth of Satan, but with a moment’s careful consideration decided against it in that forum. This was because: - of her relative immaturity for her age - the proximity of her even-less-mature and younger siblings in the room - the proximity of some of the rest of my family, half of whom are drama queens and the other half of whom are always out to better their family standing at the expense of others. I chose instead to respond to her with open comments and questions designed to make her think even harder about her mish-mash of new age beliefs, without coming across as judgemental. I also promised her that we would talk at some other point “when we had lots more time to have a full discussion” on the matter. I will choose that time carefully. I have also since then actively sought to influence her path in life by doing small practical things like giving her travel vouchers as gifts, instead of the usual clothing and jewellery one gives to that age bracket. Travel will, and has now begun to open her mind and her eyes to the world, and has thus advanced her maturity, bringing that discussion time closer. I will continue to mentor her until I feel that my chances of having a meaningful influence on her life by revealing to her the wonder of Father Satan ….. outweighs the likelihood of such revelations by me being wasted as they become the next big attention-seeking announcement on her facebook page. It really doesn’t bother me what the rest of my family do or think if they learn of my beliefs. They aren’t particularly religious in any sincere sense of the word. Those of them who do matter to me, matter to me because they would simply accept the news and move on. But if I’m going to spend the collateral of “outing myself” then I want to have a good likelihood of a return on that investment. Ask Satan for guidance on the conversation that you will eventually have with your sister, and for help in planning it and choosing its timing. He will answer, and because of that and your integrity, you will not fail. Ave Satanas Rezaal From: [] On Behalf Of Akhkharu Usemi
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Subject: [JoS4adults] My life is coming together