sahasrarabliss said:
Okay.
Idk if I should take Celfixime & Sulbactam tablets or not... First dose of it caused ache in right side.. then cold sensation.
According to google it says that these tablets are for fighting off bacterial infections; they are antibiotics. Is that what they were prescribed for, or was it preventative?
I am unsure why it would cause that reaction. I would just ask the doctor about that one, specifically. If your kidneys aren't completely blocked by the stones, I don't know what the purpose of antibiotics would be. You could try another dose and see if does the same, or just call the doctor and say you felt a weird reaction from it.
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The doctor advising against protein and salt seems a little silly to me. That is a modern medicine idea to completely restrict the salt and protein just because of the tiny load it puts on the kidneys. In my opinion, removing them would stall the healing process more than would be gained by the kidneys not processing them.
If you want, I would just try the best of both worlds. You could probably reduce salt for a few days, but protein seems harder to do. The best protein to eat for kidney health would be beans, such as black beans or kidney beans.
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Stones formed in the gall bladder are different from those in the kidney. You would be feeling other symptoms, like poor digestion and pain where the gall bladder is located if that were the case.
The gall bladder stones usually come from low fat diet, because the gall bladder creates bile to digest fat. On a low fat diet, it produces little bile and it starts to get stagnated inside, since it isn't doing anything.
Like everything, the yoga will take care of this, particularly the side stretches. This massages the gall bladder and keeps it functioning properly.
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One cause of fear could be the weakened kidneys. Each organ system in TCM is associated with a certain emotion when they become unbalanced. For the kidneys, it is fear. I think this should improve as the kidneys heal.
From a mental or spiritual side of things, I would recommend some sort of working or self-hypnosis tapes. Perhaps Satanama, wunjo, or isa would work for calming anxious thinking.
Is the anxious thinking related to health specifically, or is it generalized? I might have two self-hypnosis tapes for health-specific thoughts, if that is the case.
Void meditation is a big part of emotional regulation, so don't give up on it. I understand what you mean, like perhaps the feeling is too great for void meditation to solve it in the short term.
I don't understand what you mean when you say social contact is. Lack of social contact is the cause of anxious thinking, or do you mean that the lack of social contact is just sort of stressing you in general?
As far as social contact, the best place to start would be at work or at some sort of area for a hobby you have. This may start online, like in a discord channel or something.
Additionally, you can start a working to attract a friend to you, although I don't know off the top of my head what mantra to use. You could also do a working to make yourself more charismatic or friendly, also self hypnosis, if you think that would better yield you a friend.
I am pretty introverted and only see my friends every month or couple of months. Besides that, I enjoy the social interactions I get through JOS, although I know that that is not a perfect substitute.
It may be hard to create a friendship out of thin air, but it is still certainly possible. I think the best place to start would be through your hobbies, like if you play any games or anything really. From there, you could find people in person or online, and as you build up a relationship, then you ask them to hang out in person and stuff.
You are not alone in that sort of situation. I have read on Reddit about a lot of people like that. Most people get their friends from either work or school anyway, because they are around the same people for long enough. Perhaps there are some subreddits or organizations that will match potential friends together.
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As far as height goes, I think that is hard to change now. It is eventually possible, but you will have to be pretty advanced spiritually. There might be some sort of hypnosis tapes for this, but I imagine it would take a long time to work, assuming it worked at all.
For me, I have stopped caring about my height. It was only in my teenage years when people would mention it to me, but now nobody says anything about it, so it never pops into my mind.
You have to focus on the other aspects of yourself, like your charisma, hygiene, grooming, and musculature/body composition. These will all compensate for height. Don't forget raw spiritual power, which of course helps everything.
As far as relationships with girls go, you will have to focus on these other aspects. Some girls may not like men shorter than them, but others don't mind it as much.