Help me with my Sexual Orientation please

[EvilWang]

This is something only you can decide and explore. Doing it any other way would take the fun out of it and pretty much kill any true developement as an individual. Long post short answer. These things take time but its up to you to make it a good time. Get it?

 

[Windstrider666]

If you want to and enjoy sex with a girl then you like girls. If you want guys then you are into guys. If you do both then you like both. Everything else is personal preference. Just cuz you like a certain sex doesnt mean you will like and have intercourse with "just anyone" of that sex. No need to be so hung up on it. You like what you like.

 

[Dahaarkan]

Make an effort to meet people and make close friends you can have sex with. The only real way to be sure what you're really into is to try different things with different people.

You might find you are completely uncomfortable having sex with a man.

 

[Eric13]

The only real way to be sure what you're really into is to try different things with different people.

You might find you are completely uncomfortable having sex with a man.

That’s terrible advice. That’s how people create hangups. Especially with sexuality, a person shouldn’t do something they’re uncomfortable with. Things like this a person will know and the OP has already made it clear he’s attracted to men and women just has a certain type.

I’ve heard people suggest this before and it’s lunacy. I don’t need to try interracial to know if I’m into it. With sexuality do what makes you comfortable and what you enjoy. Serious hangups and blockages can be made otherwise. I don’t need to have sex with a man to realize I’m not gay. That would be horrible and I would be out of it for a while. Then a person has to recover and deal with new blockages they shouldn’t have had to deal with in the first place.

If a person is really confused, just focus on meditation and removing blockages related to this. Their feelings will become clear soon enough.

I don’t mean to sound rude at all with this reply, I just think it’s dangerous to tell people to go and experiment in this manner. Experimenting is fine, to degree, if you’re comfortable with it only.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

So you want a strong fiery girl to be in charge and tell you what to do? Me too

 

[Dahaarkan]

i dont understand english lol

I meant that in the context that he recently has "discovered" that he is into men, and that after trying he may discover he doesn't like it at all. I've had this happen before. Guys see something on the internet or create a fantasy in their mind and then when they actually try it out they don't like it at all.

It's something he is confused about and thinks he wants. So I say the only way to be sure is to try.