You can be in a relationship with her, but I don't see why you want to. Xians are under control along with everyone without, you may have a very difficult relationship...lots of problems. The enemy will use her against you constantly. not to mention she believes in a heinous lie that is a curse to Gentiles. maybe do awaking rituals for her? Idk I'm still new. It's all up to you, Satan won't abandon you for it or anything.