FamousSirius338
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Purpose:
This post is directly related to guilt attached to business. I would like to open the floor to different perspectives around business, and kindly remind everyone to respect that this can be sensitive but a way for us to understand deeper. The pursuit of material advancement can easily push spiritual advancement to the side, and vice versa. The idea of me posting this is to find temperance within business without sacrificing spiritual growth. In many circumstances it is easy to take advantage of a situation to get ahead, in many industries it feels there’s no other way. Some industries are eat what you kill or hustle or be hustled. Those of you who work in commerce or finance can certainly understand how important it is to know the game to win. Here, I’d love to trade perspective but let this be learning ground for those wanting to understand business better as well.
Disclaimer:
I will do my absolute best to not bias my statements and everything mentioned is simply my opinions, and trends I have noticed. These are not facts but rather perspective and my search to finding more wise input to maintain balance whilst pursuing material success.
Guilt attached to profit:
While we all want to make money in the most honest way there are tiers I have commonly noticed and my goal is not to classify anyone into these categories specifically. The trend I see is typically mentality and where guilt lies. It is not a hierarchy I’m creating to anchor one’s value or worth to a dollar amount or to say one is better. This is the natural pyramid I see and have either been a part of or witnessed many different aspects of.
Eg. Wall Street shorts a stock or makes a prediction that the housing market will crash, while they make their money from betting against a rather unfortunate event, they still win.
More common everyday scenario
Someone with a low credit score wants an auto loan or a house, the bank has billions, technically they could just help. They wouldn’t be in business if they did for everyone, the person with a take home of $27k a year might be the reason someone with a $300k annual hit their monthly bonus and got to make extra money because they closed the deal with a high interest rate leveraging their position.
When we look closer at positions, can you hate the game? The player? Can you play and still be a good person? If you learn to play, how quickly does your answer change?
It’s fun when you close a deal high and know you’re making a lot of money, profit isn’t a bad word, BUT guilt can creep if you believe you’re taking advantage of a situation. Does it just mean you’re amazing at what you do, or does it make you a sleez who has justified wrongdoing and in denial about the harm being caused?Some industries you’ll be the middleman and have no control over that but assume the burden. Some you’ll make the decision based off of business moto. It simply is what it is. Overall I’d like to understand how to walk these lines ethically and help our entire community learn good habits and prosper together with truth and honesty.
Justification gets easy after the first and second time, you tell yourself it’s just how business works but you have trouble sleeping. What’s the way to win? Did they pick up these cards and unfortunately that’s just how it works? Some are rewarded with sovereignty and others might choose a victim mentality. Something I’ve personally struggled with is wanting to help but when someone has put themselves into a hole it’s not your job to. Does it mean they should pay 29.9% APR on a car worth $13k and the millionaire should pay 0.9% on a 140k car? The top has to make their money to stay there. Maybe they did the work to get there, maybe it was handed to them since birth. When you make decisions in these situations justification creeps in. Should you sacrifice a pawn to save a queen but there’s still blood? Or do we need to understand pawns are the next queens? Maybe both and it’s context driven.
Tying into this scenario, I think of it as a game, escaping it is a tough and lonely route especially in today’s day and age.. you can technically go off grid and hunt and garden and use fire for heating your home and give up technology and communication the modern way or we can learn exactly how to play the game.
In my transition of moving out of my parents house I did not have the best credit, nor did I save up enough for 1st, last month and security deposit so my options were limited. I decided to move into a hostel. You’re allowed to pay with a credit card, no deposit is required and it’s furnished. The flip side, no background checks, shared spaces, and volatility, so while I may be different than the common demographic I can’t place myself above and pretend I am entitled to a cleaner space or more luxurious experience. It’s as simple as that. (I still found a way to have the time of my life and thrive, to appreciate the opportunity for perspective and a learning experience)
Technically a Fortune 500 company who sells something we all need everyday like water, or medicine can charge as much as they’d like. Does it mean they’re smart and found a way to win? Does it make them a crook? There’s a way forward without becoming a racketeer. I’d like to see how all of our members prior experiences and current situations shape their mentality with this and how to avoid feeling guilty if they are someone who is a “shot caller” and does have other people dependent on their decisions.
This post is directly related to guilt attached to business. I would like to open the floor to different perspectives around business, and kindly remind everyone to respect that this can be sensitive but a way for us to understand deeper. The pursuit of material advancement can easily push spiritual advancement to the side, and vice versa. The idea of me posting this is to find temperance within business without sacrificing spiritual growth. In many circumstances it is easy to take advantage of a situation to get ahead, in many industries it feels there’s no other way. Some industries are eat what you kill or hustle or be hustled. Those of you who work in commerce or finance can certainly understand how important it is to know the game to win. Here, I’d love to trade perspective but let this be learning ground for those wanting to understand business better as well.
Disclaimer:
I will do my absolute best to not bias my statements and everything mentioned is simply my opinions, and trends I have noticed. These are not facts but rather perspective and my search to finding more wise input to maintain balance whilst pursuing material success.
Guilt attached to profit:
While we all want to make money in the most honest way there are tiers I have commonly noticed and my goal is not to classify anyone into these categories specifically. The trend I see is typically mentality and where guilt lies. It is not a hierarchy I’m creating to anchor one’s value or worth to a dollar amount or to say one is better. This is the natural pyramid I see and have either been a part of or witnessed many different aspects of.
Eg. Wall Street shorts a stock or makes a prediction that the housing market will crash, while they make their money from betting against a rather unfortunate event, they still win.
More common everyday scenario
Someone with a low credit score wants an auto loan or a house, the bank has billions, technically they could just help. They wouldn’t be in business if they did for everyone, the person with a take home of $27k a year might be the reason someone with a $300k annual hit their monthly bonus and got to make extra money because they closed the deal with a high interest rate leveraging their position.
When we look closer at positions, can you hate the game? The player? Can you play and still be a good person? If you learn to play, how quickly does your answer change?
It’s fun when you close a deal high and know you’re making a lot of money, profit isn’t a bad word, BUT guilt can creep if you believe you’re taking advantage of a situation. Does it just mean you’re amazing at what you do, or does it make you a sleez who has justified wrongdoing and in denial about the harm being caused?Some industries you’ll be the middleman and have no control over that but assume the burden. Some you’ll make the decision based off of business moto. It simply is what it is. Overall I’d like to understand how to walk these lines ethically and help our entire community learn good habits and prosper together with truth and honesty.
Justification gets easy after the first and second time, you tell yourself it’s just how business works but you have trouble sleeping. What’s the way to win? Did they pick up these cards and unfortunately that’s just how it works? Some are rewarded with sovereignty and others might choose a victim mentality. Something I’ve personally struggled with is wanting to help but when someone has put themselves into a hole it’s not your job to. Does it mean they should pay 29.9% APR on a car worth $13k and the millionaire should pay 0.9% on a 140k car? The top has to make their money to stay there. Maybe they did the work to get there, maybe it was handed to them since birth. When you make decisions in these situations justification creeps in. Should you sacrifice a pawn to save a queen but there’s still blood? Or do we need to understand pawns are the next queens? Maybe both and it’s context driven.
Tying into this scenario, I think of it as a game, escaping it is a tough and lonely route especially in today’s day and age.. you can technically go off grid and hunt and garden and use fire for heating your home and give up technology and communication the modern way or we can learn exactly how to play the game.
In my transition of moving out of my parents house I did not have the best credit, nor did I save up enough for 1st, last month and security deposit so my options were limited. I decided to move into a hostel. You’re allowed to pay with a credit card, no deposit is required and it’s furnished. The flip side, no background checks, shared spaces, and volatility, so while I may be different than the common demographic I can’t place myself above and pretend I am entitled to a cleaner space or more luxurious experience. It’s as simple as that. (I still found a way to have the time of my life and thrive, to appreciate the opportunity for perspective and a learning experience)
Technically a Fortune 500 company who sells something we all need everyday like water, or medicine can charge as much as they’d like. Does it mean they’re smart and found a way to win? Does it make them a crook? There’s a way forward without becoming a racketeer. I’d like to see how all of our members prior experiences and current situations shape their mentality with this and how to avoid feeling guilty if they are someone who is a “shot caller” and does have other people dependent on their decisions.