I know that when masturbating the energy should be sent up the spine but when I engage in sexual intercourse with my girlfriend (soon to be fiancee) my emotions consume me and literally the only thing that i am aware of is me and her and I can't focus to send the energy up the spine and my...
You may need more practice with meditation and such I did the same thing ironically and mosquitoes rarely even land close to me every so often one will land on me though and did you use afirmations excuse my spelling